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Tackling existential distress in palliative care


Doug Hendrie


10/01/2019 11:07:53 AM

Palliative care is about relieving distress. But that distress is not just physical – it’s existential.

For many palliative care patients, a search for meaning is vital at the end of life.
For many palliative care patients, a search for meaning is vital at the end of life.

In the public’s mind, palliative care is associated with relief of suffering.
 
But a surprising amount of end-of-life suffering is not just physical – but existential. And for some, it can cause extreme suffering.
 
Dr Nicola Morgan worked as a GP for more than a decade before becoming a palliative care specialist on the Gold Coast, where she has helped many patients die ‘good deaths’.
 
In that time, she has seen the effects of people grappling with meaning as their days come to an end.
 
‘We are complicated creatures. We are physical, emotional, and spiritual,’ Dr Morgan told newsGP

‘I’m not talking about religion, but about what gives you meaning.
 
‘If that part is suffering, that’s existential distress. In specialist palliative care, we see a lot of it.’
 
But Dr Morgan said many patients are not able to express that distress directly.
 
‘It doesn’t necessarily manifest. You have to go searching for it,’ she said. ‘If someone is, within their psyche, struggling deeply, it depends on the individual as to what solution would work.
 
‘If they’re religious, they may need a priest. But it may be totally different.

For a young woman, say, who is going to die soon and will never see her children grow up and their important journeys, you might find the most appropriate solution is to assist in her writing important letters for them to open on special occasions, so she can have closure. It’s complex.
 
‘Sometimes it’s about loss of roles and grieving for them, about not wanting to be in the situation you find yourself in.’
 
Dr Morgan has found that one of the unexpected gifts of working with people who are dying is the opportunity to think these issues though.
 
‘Working with people who are dying gifts us with the opportunity to consider these weighty life issues at an earlier stage of our own lives, before we are in crisis, and that enables us to grow and deepen as human beings,’ she said.
 
It is partly for this reason that palliative care teams include occupational therapists, social workers and psychologists.
 
Andrew Allsop, psychosocial and spiritual support manager for community health and aged care services provider Silver Chain, describes tackling existential and spiritual distress as a key part of quality palliative care.
 
‘If [the patient is] experiencing significant spiritual or existential distress, then it is then trying to get a sense of what is leading to that,’ he said. ‘They may be feeling incredibly isolated, totally disconnected, demoralised and have a sense of hopelessness, because they are struggling to really come to terms with what their life has been about.
 
‘They may need support as they grapple with what has given their life meaning and what will sustain the life they have left.
 
‘Nothing is going to solve [existential distress]. It’s not about trying to fix something. It’s actually being present to that person’s feelings, pain or grief, whatever that might be. It’s then trying to help people develop a sense of meaning where they feel there hasn’t been any, or there isn’t any.’



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Thushara Jayawardena   11/01/2019 7:22:04 AM

Its gives us lots of heart feeling lessons ,thank for u all


P Sam   11/01/2019 6:17:52 PM

"Nothing is going to solve [existential distress]."- I do not claim I have mastered this or got anywhere near it but the best solution is to start well before all these things happen. Think that sickness and death can come any moment and therefore live a life full of kindness and gratitude, every moment. It is important to start well before any of those things happen.


Carl Milton   17/01/2019 5:09:15 PM

An existential crisis, however painful and distressing at the time can lead to opening new doors in life. Existential pain and the search for meaning is not necessarily confined to being a deathbed scenario and can occur when one's life choices or way of living - career, partner, etc. etc. have not been congruent with living in integrity to ones true core being.


Veritable   17/01/2019 7:54:18 PM

It's very frustrating and challenging when you can't work through/try and resolve a person's existential distress due to communication barriers.


Marcella   20/03/2019 8:29:32 AM

From my eight years working wth dying hospital patients, I agree that existential suffering usually cannot be extingushed in one or two meetings with someone at the end of their life. It is true, however, as Dr Morgan points out, that it can certainly be eased. This can help people let go of their fear of dying and relax into their death.

Marcella
Companioning Care LLC
www.companioning.care


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