Opinion
I thought exercise and diet would help my patient tackle obesity – I had to think again
Dr Hester Wilson is reconsidering her long-term approach to treating obesity.
My patient, Jo, has been obese for as long as she can remember.
In our consultations, she would talk of life as an obese teenager, of the full quota of shame she experienced, both from her own loathing of her body and that given to her by others.
It has not stopped her from living, however. Jo has been successful in her career, had a family, and has many close friendships. But obesity is something that lingers in the background, always there.
Jo has always worked at being fit – she has long been worried about her health – and over the years we had many discussions about her weight and ways to change the situation.
My focus was always on using long-term goals to slowly reduce weight, with a combination of exercise and diet.
A few years back, Jo attended an intensive ‘fat camp’, after which she managed to lose a drastic 70 kg – only to put it back on over the following months.
This came as a real blow.
Jo then chose to go through bariatric surgery. While we had talked about this option, she had always told me it was a last resort because it felt to her like a failure of her self-control. I had never pushed it, and instead placed my faith in diet and exercise.
But after the surgery, I saw the change. Jo shed weight fast and has maintained her new, much lower weight. Her health has improved significantly.
When she came to me recently, I asked Jo about how she now saw her lifelong struggle. Her sense was that the ‘fat camp’ was the turning point, while the surgery was adjunct.
I couldn’t help but wonder if it was, in fact, both.
Jo had been shaped irrevocably by the stigma that still persists around obesity. I had been working with Jo for such a long time before we found an answer that worked for her.
I have recently been seeing a number of obese adolescents. Hearing their stories of stigma and self-shame made me think of Jo, and I wondered why bariatric surgery was so hard to obtain for teenagers.
I wondered at my own prejudice and why my focus was diet and exercise when, given the links between obesity and health, the stakes are so high. And when, arguably, adolescents have the most to gain from acting early.
Should I have pushed earlier to encourage Jo to have the surgery? Was it my prejudice that kept me working the same way for so long? Deep down, had I bought into the idea that obesity had to be changed through willpower?
And, given how much bariatric surgery had helped Jo, should I push to find options for obese adolescents to have surgery now? Could I save them decades of struggle?
I don’t know the answers to these questions. I’m sure there’s good information about bariatric surgery outcomes that could help me find the way through.
But, right now, I’m more interested in the experiences of the people I see and helping them to find the right answers. And I’m interested in always questioning myself and my approach, and in learning from my patients. In this area, Jo has been my greatest teacher.
As Jo recently concluded, to get her to the point where she achieved the change, it took the camp, the rebound weight loss, and finally the surgery. She believes she has made the right choices.
She just wishes she been able to make them earlier in life.
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